Turning 40: Reflections, Regrets, and New Beginnings
Have you ever wondered what life will be like when you turn 40? Well, let me share what’s happening to me right now. People say that when you hit your 40s, you start looking at your life with a new perspective, questioning the choices you’ve made. And let me tell you—it’s true. Suddenly, you start measuring your life not just by your job, family, or what you’ve accomplished, but by what you haven’t done. It’s like waking up and asking yourself, *“Is this it?”* Now that I’m 41, retirement is on my mind. Nineteen years to go until I hang up my hat—can you believe it? But here’s the catch: I feel like I haven’t even built the life I dreamed of yet. Sometimes, it feels like it’s too late to start something new, and I catch myself regretting the things I didn’t pursue—the dreams of becoming successful, known, or influential. Yes, I’ve traveled the world, built a respectable career, and raised a family. Yet there’s this lingering feeling that somehow, it’s not enough. When I was y...